Written by: January 7, 2024
Life hack: Today, start a note on your phone to collect thoughtful gift ideas for friends and family throughout the year.
Principle-First
As the holiday season winds down and we enter 2024, it's the ideal time to reflect on our gifting strategy.
Often, we find ourselves caught in the last-minute holiday rush, making do with whatever we can find. (I’ve been there.)
But what if 2024 could be different?
Now is the perfect time to start a new tradition of mindful gifting—prioritizing intention over haste.
Today, I’ll show you a simple, foolproof way to always have the perfect gift.
SUPERHUMAN SCORING
In every edition of System Sunday, I assess the featured system across three superhuman dimensions: impact, setup, and maintenance.
Unlike your typical review, I focus on factors that influence personal growth. Get to know the evaluation system.
Impact (8.5/10)
Think back to the best gift you've ever received. What made it special? Chances are, it was the thought behind it.
It's not about the price tag; it's about the emotional value that comes from being seen, heard, and remembered.
A carefully chosen gift can reinforce your bond with someone, showing them how well you understand and appreciate them.
Onwards to the system.
Setup (9.5/10)
Here's the life hack:
Start a note in your phone dedicated exclusively to gift ideas for your friends and family.
(I use Evernote, but Notion or Apple Notes are other popular options.)
Whenever you catch a hint of “I've always wanted…” or “I wish I had…” in conversations, make a note of it.
Notice a friend's new interest in gardening or a boss’s passion for cooking? Jot it down.
The best presents come from your presence in conversation—from listening and writing down thoughtful ideas.
This method is your cheat sheet to ace every gifting occasion, whether birthdays, anniversaries, or just because.
Maintenance (7.5/10)
The beauty of this system lies in its simplicity and flexibility, allowing you to capture fleeting moments and turn them into future surprises.
Keep this practice alive by regularly updating your notes.
Did your sister recently take up painting? Add art supplies to her list. Did your best friend rave about a concert he wants to attend? Note it down.
Treat this list as a living document, evolving as your relationships do.
You'll soon find yourself effortlessly collecting ideas throughout the year, turning what used to be a frantic search into a curated collection of perfect gift ideas.
Pro Tip: Jot down how past gifts were received. Perhaps you’ll notice a pattern that someone prefers experiences over material possessions or practical gifts over sentimental ones. This reflection will help you adjust your approach for future gifting.
BRINGING IT HOME
Wherever you see consistency and high performance, there is likely a system behind the scenes.
Gift-giving is no exception.
The essence of today’s method is not just about finding gifts; it's about deepening relationships and spreading joy.
Each note you make is a step towards understanding your loved ones better and strengthening your bond.
All systems go,
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